How do we forget someone? Or to put it better, how do we forget someone we love? The answer is simple. We cannot forget the people we love. It is only when we don’t love them anymore that we are able to free ourselves from the feeling of affection and attachment. In fact, we don’t even remember the people we don’t love in the first place.
The key to forgetting is to stop loving. For as long as we still love a person, time and distance doesn’t mean anything. They can never diminish or take away the feeling. It is not in trying to be away from him that you will be free from what you feel. It is in not wanting to love him that you will be free from what you feel. It is in not wanting to love him that you will find your way to acceptance and recovery. It is in not choosing to love him that you will be free from the bondage of this feeling.
We all make choices in life. If loving a person is a preference then not wanting to love that person can also be an option. It is just a matter of deciding which one to take and making sure that we don’t look back and regret the choice we made.
Monday, July 14, 2008
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